I once heard it being said:
THE SAME PLACE/WAYS THE DEVIL USED TO HUMILIATE YOU, IS THE SAME PLACE/ WAYS GOD WILL USE TO ELEVATE YOU.
Too often we shy away from life challenges. Crying over and over again at the same issues instead of learning, growing and rising above the issues.
With every tide of each wave, we can rise above it or we will sink because we have FEAR.
When we go through life challenges, when we make mistakes, what destroys us is not the challenges nor the mistakes but the FEAR of the outcome of the challenge and mistakes itself.
When you have FEAR, you will never see clearly. This is why I often say that life is not for the cowards not the weak at heart and nor the cry babies.
Life is for those who will face the storms heads on and rise at each wave because these individuals have gone past their greatest FEAR of all.
THE FEAR OF DEATH.
They say when someone has seen death multiple times and smelt it multiple times and came back to life, nothing else shakes them. They are fearless because they have tasted it.
That is one of the reason I never FEAR anything in life. That is why I move on from circumstances of life quickly.
You can not stay where you are not needed or wanted. You can not stay where you are not valued or respected.
However, understand that, what ever the devil keeps using as a tool to keep humiliating you, that is exactly where your blessing is.
From the age 7 to now, what abuse have I not suffered in the hands of men?
What humiliation have men not put me through?
Yet, just like the morning sun I keep rising and keep trying again.
Because the devil wants me to Fear Men, to be afraid of relationships with men. Devil has no idea how far I am willing to go until I come across THE ONE MAN, who is the blessing of God in my life.
It is not about what you are going through and what you’re seeing. It is about why you are going through it and what you are not physically seeing.
Devil used men to Break me but God is using men to Build me!
If I put FEAR in my journey, I would have not seen all these amazing men who made me who I am today.
So, I ask you:
What is your FEAR?
If you could FEAR it no more,
You will see your blessing.
In other word, what you are seeing is not real, it’s only real to yourself.